Archive for September, 2010
My religion is against Masterbution ?how can i stop it ,i m a divorced woman and dont want to marry?
plz tell me ,is working out too much or lack of food, studying and working ..Does it kill it
and i want to stick to my faith so don’t start
hello…u cant stop it abruptly,u can start leaving that by behaviour by putting a timetable for doing masterbution..let say once a week may be if u used to do more than a once a week..then u keep on extending ur tymtable..may be once per 2 weeks…until u get used with ur new life…but for sure its hard to leave what u have started…bye the way,if u want to be a woman of ur faith..i blv what u blv have solution for that problem…ask the thing u blv to help u stop that behaviour….
Nanny needs help with Job.?
i’ve been a nanny for 3+years for the same family. I’m so sick of working for this family, i love the kids, but I would be more happy doing something less stressful. I’m 21 and I feel like the mother and father are always trying to find ways to take advantage of me. It’s like I’m fighting for a peace of mind. They have an unhealthy marriage. The wife lies and cheats on him and I do not want to be apart of it. Although I love the mother for all the great things she has given me. I just need to know what to do. Should just deal with it till I’m done with school? I get paid. $2,000mth for 30hrs but I feel like I work more hours. I clean, cook, take care of the kids the dog, pretty much I run the whole house.
I have also spoke to my boss about what I do in the house, but they always find ways to make me do it. Almost everyday I have to say no, and they have a way to make me feel bad about it. I try not to let them get to me, but its so hard on my mind, body, and soul.
Taking care of children and the household is very stressful and it takes a lot of time and patience. Being in the type of situation you are in puts more pressure on you and I understand why it is you would like to make a change. There are many stable homes where you might find a more desirable situation and a decent wage for child care and light housekeeping. If you are saying that you work 30 plus hours a week and get $2000 per month, it ends up that you are being paid a little more than $16 per hour with room and board included. If I were you, I would consult with other nannies and see what wages they are paid and what hours and responsibilities they are required to do. Don’t let this family make you feel guilty. I think you could find a job where you would be happier but that is a decision that only you can make. If you do end up going for another job, you must set up the ground rules as far as what you will do: child care, meal preparation, laundry, house keeping, etc.
I know that there are many housekeepers in our area who get $25 per hour. If you work an 8 hour day 5 times a week; you would end up with $1000 per week but would have to find housing unless you lived in. It is something to consider. You might also consider doing childcare for families during the day in one place where they would bring the child to you. You might work 10 hour days but you could also end up with $250 or more per child per week. (Maybe someone would allow you to babysit in their home for other families if you didn’t charge them for their child but used their residence for the daycare center. If you had four children to care for, you would make $1000 a week and you would have your evenings and weekends to yourself. These are just options.
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